OT dating a married chick
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Iknow I'm old and gullible but I call 100%baloney on this...
Iknow I'm old and gullible but I call 100%baloney on this...
He just wants to be considered bisexual. Since he wasn't completely faithful to being with just women or just men, he can't be considered heterosexual or homosexual. And there is no piece of paper to hold him to it. ha ha ha
Ha!!!!! Not for you, I know...but man that piece of paper really gets in some people's kitchen!
Is it the piece of paper or is it the solemn vow you take in front of your friends and family where you promise to love honor and cherish til death? Nevermind that the vow often involves God for many folks. Just look at one's own vow of honor to uphold that "piece of paper". Granted as a predator just seeking sex that person's vows means nothing to you but personally I would have a really tough time justifying helping some one else beak that vow. To each their own. We're not the ones who ultimately will have the final say on the disposition of your soul. Everybody has their own set of values and they'll have to live with the consequences whether it's merely an STD, an unplanned pregnancy or perhaps burning in hell for eternity.
Is it the piece of paper or is it the solemn vow you take in front of your friends and family where you promise to love honor and cherish til death? Nevermind that the vow often involves God for many folks. Just look at one's own vow of honor to uphold that "piece of paper". Granted as a predator just seeking sex that person's vows means nothing to you but personally I would have a really tough time justifying helping some one else beak that vow. To each their own. We're not the ones who ultimately will have the final say on the disposition of your soul. Everybody has their own set of values and they'll have to live with the consequences whether it's merely an STD, an unplanned pregnancy or perhaps burning in hell for eternity.
Now we are saying that divorce = going to hell.
Iknow I'm old and gullible but I call 100%baloney on this...
My baloney has a second name....
Nope. I didn't say that. The Bible says that thou shalt not commit adultery. Clearly it is forbidden. The vows taken in a traditional marriage ceremony are not in the Bible that I can recall. So, according to the Bible your act of banging a married woman is just as sinful probably as the married woman's act. Some of us believe that sins can be repented from and forgiven due the grace of Jesus Christ, his death and resurrection. The VOW, is one's statement of commitment. Honorable people don't casually break vows taken in front of family and friends without just cause...say you know such as infidelity. So the bottom line is that obviously you don't care about sin or honor so keep on doing what you want to do. Time will tell who was right. Maybe you'll get lucky.
It's called a double entendre.
She must have been pretty good at fooling her hubby, which shows she didn't give a **** about her marriage. I bet she contacts you again.
When this thread gets brought up as an all-timer in a few years, I am just happy that I was apart of it.
Why? What did he do? He's having a conversation, and why do you care.
Perhaps this could be simplified and it becomes okay to pork a married person ONLY IF you get a permission slip from the spouse. Format is not important, notarized letter, note on a napkin, email, or text would all be permissible. Otherwise, it's a no-fly zone.
IF that was her only discretion, then you are better off not telling. Hopefully they stayed together and their marriage is fine. Highly unlikely, but a mistake is just that. Sexually involved a bigger issue. But IF it was a one time flirting and not sure how I feel about things deal, not worth ruining a marriage over.
If it's more than a one-time thing, it will come out .
Very true. Now, on the flip side, if you knowingly are banging a married person, you are as guilty as they are.
And was the guy getting an annulment because he wanted to bang dudes?You did a gal AND a guy??!!!???
And I thought dating in the 80s was complicated. Heck it was actually simpler then.
You asked them out, you opened the door for them, you paid for the meal AND the tip, the movie, the snacks, the beer.....
Now a days, my head would spin.
That's the problem. It wasn't just flirting I did her twice. Flirting? I have had that happen a few times and didn't feel the need to say anything and don't really feel guilty about not doing so.
In this instance, I wish I would have because, like I said, I met her husband and talked to him quite a bit after the fact. He was a pretty cool guy. And if she was willing to hook up with a guy like me, she'll probably hook up with anybody. Lol. Dude needs to know that.
I feel like the other person always knows...even if they don't know. You know what I mean?
Probably the case a lot of times....In this instance, I can almost guarantee that her husband didn't know. Either that or he was still cool with me after doing his wife. I highly doubt that was the case.
I guess I don't mean know it was you or know for sure...but you just sort of get that vibe...like a spidey sense sort of thing...like something just seems off but you of course can't bring anything up.
Oh my god...this is awesome!
Years ago, in college, we would get those 900 number sex line catalogs sent to our house/frat...one day a buddy came over and I opened it up to a picture of a super hot "girl" and I had my thumb over "her" dong...I said "Dude, check her out, would you want to do her?" and he nods his head and goes "Hell yeah"
Then I pulled my thumb away from "her" dong.
And if the married guy beat the ever living piss out of you and hospitalized your dumbass, I wouldnt feel sorry a bit.
Gotcha. I still kind of got the vibe dude had no clue his wife was a cheater. I just was pissed that I was the accomplice in that situation. I probably don't have the strongest moral fiber around, but that is NOT something I would have done if I knew she was married. B&$#, lied, but I still felt like s$%# about it.
Those are just pieces of paper.
Just a piece of paper. If that’s all you got it means nothing.
Yeah, I was summing up JRE’s position on the issue. I agree with you.
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