I accept the behavior because I care more for a good individual than I do Nebraska football. I'm a huge fan, but if a player & good kid feels like Nebraska is no longer the place for them, then I'm not going to trash them on their way out and wish them the best.
1) Yes it may have been better, but it would only really matter if Martinez goes down early. It's not like Bunch is far behind because Gebbia stuck around. If anything, Gebbia sticking around until now pushed Martinez more than ever so you can't thank him for that.
2) Ah see, it's your opinion that he is being selfish and low life. Because it's an opinion and not a fact, you are attacking him. Otherwise I could say that you're a douche and claim that I'm not attacking you.
The timing makes no difference on how it reflects on him.