And I will add that sometimes when the market goes up, a lot of people do not see a benefit plus it may not necessarily be a sign that things are all peaches & cream in the economy. Often times the market goes up in anticipation of good news (as a lot of people on here are well aware) but the here and now is not so great.
For me, I am invested in the market and I've found that the less I do, the better off I am. I'm conservative by nature and that's helped me for the most part (except for when I didn't buy more Bitcoin back in 2016.
As for you, I bet you haven't regretted paying off your mortgage back in the day!
Because I was raised by a mom with 5 kids, and who was a dishwasher I absolutely know what it's like to grow up poor, I never wanted to be a slave to any lender.
I became self sufficient by the time I turned 12, and on my own since I was 14. So, yes, sometimes I can be a prick to people on here because I grew up dependent on myself, and don't take shit from anyyone.
Moving every month or so and all the negative that comes with that made me realize how being stable, and staying in one place, is so beneficial for myself, wife and certainly my kids. I also know we all have to have a place to live.
When we were finally able to buy a home after the disastrous 17% rates during the Carter years, I used the VA loan and immediatly ordered an amortization schedule and made a plan to pay it off in full in 7 years. By paying my monthly mortgage while at the same time attacking the principle in months 360, 359, 358, etc, backwards, I was able to pay monthly principle thus avoiding paying any interest and have that part vanish. My theory being, if interest is based on principle then how could they charge interest in those late years if there's no principle to attach to. Right?
The thing that is crushing for me is the inability of so many good, hard working Americans who have been shut out from having a fighting chance at buying a home, which of course, can be a tremendous investment opportunity. As with most people, from what we paid for our home, even today on Zillow, its worth 500% more than we paid. In this country, every willing person should have that same opportunity.
We don't have or need a credit card. Back in the day we had to use a credit card to book flights, rent cars, pay for a hotel, etc. But, since debit cards came along, we cancelled that credit card since we paid the balance every month, now when we travel we just pay with the debit card.
For someone who grew up in poverty and dropped out of school as a 10th grader I've managed to change the entire narrative for my family and my grandchildren. Albeit not perfect, my family thinks I'm a rock star.