They do take them. They just let the families know that they don't have the resources for them and that they won't make "major" accommodations for them but still d 504's, but I honestly don't know if that always = SPED, I think it depends.
So then as you know for a lot of parents they are scared of that, because that is a really scary thing for parents and the student. It is not that they don't want to help that kid, it is that they just don't have SPED teachers, who honestly are the best teachers in a HS by far (I personally think Kindergarten teachers are the most amazing teachers, I don't know how they do it) but SPED teachers at the HS level are miracle workers. I have also felt, and I am not a SPED teacher at all, not even close, but SPED teachers make THE BEST coaches. They also usually have the best sense of humor.
As far as not counting them, I have never heard that. that would be stupid on their part.
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