I hear what you're saying, but I think there has to be some middle ground to this.
We can't discount the reasons some people are floating, that we lack depth, talent (this one is questionable, as we certainly have shown enough talent here down the stretch), cohesiveness between players and coaches (this one is difficult to pin down). I do think these were factors to a certain degree.
However, the coaches haven't been stellar either. If the team had been better coached, we wouldn't be sitting with a losing record today.
There has been enough dysfunction on the Nebraska sidelines that I believe the blame can be spread far and wide. It isn't all coaches, but they have their part. It isn't all players either, but they have their part. Just my opinion, as there really isn't any way to quantify it.
As far as what would be great, I can only go by what Wasker said himself. If we beat Iowa, he will be upset. Maybe he meant disappointed, which I can get behind. But he said upset. I will never understand this sentiment. He even tied it directly to the coaches.