The issue with (part of) what he is saying is that, whether he intended for it sound like that or not, it comes off that he is saying that kids who take things to the end are prima donnas. The irony is that back when he was a recruit (before a recruit's every movement was tracked by recruiting sites and in social media) taking all or most of your visits and waiting towards the end to make a decision was the norm. Sure some of these kids are prima donnas or whatever...but some kids are actually trying to gather as much information as possible and make an educated decision that EFFECTS THE REST OF THEIR LIFE...any notion that all these kids (or even most) are trying to hold a school "hostage" is actually kind of offensive.
A number of years ago a recruit's father said something that should be told to every recruit...when his kid did not sign on NSD the father said..."National Signing Day is the first day you can sign, not the last!" But once a year, whether it is just a simple press conference or something more, coaches from around the country announce their prize recruiting class, talk them up like they have all already accomplished something and if it is impressive enough boosters open their check books. Yes, what Scott Frost said is hypocritical...why is he (and all coaches) holding the kid "hostage" with a single date in February...because you very well know that unless the kid is a top 10 or so kid that the coach will looking to fill that spot with someone on NSD and not wait...why Scott...because you need to exploit the moment that is NSD so you can get boosters to open their wallets and/or create more excitement for season tickets? Why not just wait to release the name when you release your fall roster?
Yes, there are some kids who fall in love with the process. Why wouldn't some...they get told how great they are by famous coaches, get treated like kings on visits, have had a whole set of media built around where they will attend school, etc. But they didn't build this...you can actually argue that the kids are the ones being held "hostage" by a system where you have coaches, boosters, fans etc practically begging them to commit. But at the end of the day the person whose life is most impacted by the decision is the kid himself. So...Scott...if a kid wants to take all his visits and make his decision as late as possible (meaning as late as he thinks is possible because the way things are they feel NSD is a hard deadline) then let them do it and don't question their integrity...