They are a tool to be used properly and respected. If people would treat them like we were taught as kids it wouldn't be a problem. I actually like to shoot, grew up around hunting and trap shooting.
But I see a lot of people turn guns into an identity and totally ignore the safety and proper respect for them. That's asking for funeral services. We grew up with guns being for hunting, you had one gun for each kind of game. Now you get sold a raft of fear that an army of boogeymen are coming to your house and you need an arsenal and unless you're some kind of drug kingpin, no they're not and no you don't.
Some pipehead comes trying to steal your laptop a couple barrels of rock salt would do you just fine. I deal in data and the data says a gun in the home makes it more likely that somebody who lives there dies of a gunshot, not less. Statistically you're less safe having guns, especially handguns. You wouldn't play poker tournaments pushing in with a 7-2, stats matter.
Parents think kids don't know where the guns are, yes they do. They think kids won't play with them, yes they will. Studies on that are plain as day.
So if you wanna be safer the data says that's how you do it. You wanna load out for doomsday, that's what we call a "lifestyle choice" and it might just have unintended consequences. Just the facts.
By the same token, me driving a car makes me much more likely to die in a car crash. That doesn't stop me from using a car, which is the best tool available for its purpose. Firearms, by the by, are the best tool for self defense. Stats are definitely useful, but if you live your life solely by stats it'll be a pretty boring and sad life.
Firearm ownership, in my estimation and in regards to your note about statistics, is a calculated risk. I take many precautions (safe but quick access storage, teaching my son very young not to touch guns, when he's old enough teaching him about gun safety, etc.) to mitigate the risk and maximize the benefit. Most of the kids who "play" with guns in the studies I have seen (usually on like 20/20 or something like that) have never been exposed to firearms except through TV and movies. I've seen similar "tests" done with kids raised in homes with firearms and taught at a young age to respect them, and the results were very different. Will some kids to it regardless, ya, and that's why my firearms won't be left laying out in the first place
I grew up in a house without firearms and am mostly self taught. My father-in-law and brother-in-law helped me along with the basics but most of what I've learned was from seeking out the information myself. By the by, I have found that most gun owners I know are extremely cognizant about gun safety and are borderline obsessive about it. If you want to really piss a shooting enthusiast off, do something unsafe around them with a firearm, you'll catch all kinds of hell and rightfully so. Does that mean all firearm owners are that way? No, not at all. But you seemed to paint with a wide swath that gun owners tend to be generally irresponsible, which is a contention I wholeheartedly disagree with.
As far as barrels of rock salt, that is a truly terrible idea legally and practically. If you are in a situation where you are using a firearm to defend yourself or your home, you had better be justified in using lethal force. Using a "less lethal" loading, especially a homebrewed one like rock salt calls into question the necessity to use potentially deadly force (which any firearm will be considered, regardless of your loading). On top of that, all it would likely serve to do is piss somebody off as seen below.
https://www.theboxotruth.com/the-box-o-truth-33-rock-salt-in-a-shotgun/
The reality is that if someone is in my house potentially to do me and my family harm, I will be using a firearm to end the threat to my family. I'm not trying to scare them. Notice I'm not saying I'm shooting to kill or anything like that, it is to end the threat. Incapacitation works just as well.
Every firearm I have had a purpose, even if a couple are just that they are fun to shoot at the range. Most have a practical purpose though, be it hunting, teaching, or various modes of carry.
Dude... it's not the drywall it's your kids being on the other side of the drywall.
Well, yes. But I was specifically responding to someone who made a statement out putting holes in drywall.