I spent half my retirement fund trying to keep a younger woman satisfied.
I wasted the other half.
I wasted the other half.
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I want her!Here's a 49 y/o that might be interested in a date:
Yeah, fifteen may get you twenty,"It takes a young girl to make an old man smile". Jesse Winchester
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"Hey Nineteen" Steely Dan
My neighbor across the street is 49 and his wife is 26. They seem to get along better than all those that bitch about them in the neighborhood. Ironic that it’s the women causing the ruckus.
It is always the women who complain in these situations. You will never hear any criticism from men about a couple's age difference
It is always the women who complain in these situations. You will never hear any criticism from men about a couple's age difference
I still predict this may end up being the longest thread in Rivals history. Lol.
Haha. I forgot about that thread! Yes. You are correct. This won't come close to that.MY OPINION is that it won’t come near Yoga pants
MY OPINION is that it won’t come near Yoga pants
I don't think any of this is true. Men are the same as they've always been, but the status of women has risen greatly in a short period of time. It's inevitable that many men are going to get left behind because of this, and because young men don't have an established career yet, it's going to hit them hardest. A lot of these young men won't be able to compete in the workplace no matter what they do, so there's little else to do but turn to video games, move in with parents, etc.This is very true. In my discussions with my female college age students, what became very clear was their level of frustration with young men in their 20's. According to these girls, almost all of the younger guys are immature, video game addicted, porn addicted, losers. So many of these young women started dating guys who were over 40 just so they could be with someone who was mature and not a complete loser.
Think what you want. But I stand by my observationsI don't think any of this is true. Men are the same as they've always been, but the status of women has risen greatly in a short period of time. It's inevitable that many men are going to get left behind because of this, and because young men don't have an established career yet, it's going to hit them hardest. A lot of these young men won't be able to compete in the workplace no matter what they do, so there's little else to do but turn to video games, move in with parents, etc.
To chime in, I'm about to be 44, I just Proposed to my newly 32 y/o fiance Sat. We met in Germany at Octoberfest 2 years ago. Fyi, I don't feel creepy anymore about it. I had originally told her I was 40 as I figured that it was a fling and 40,42... whatever. I remember when she told me she was a tiger according to the Chinese New Year, I didn't immediately respond with me too which I am
Older, married, rich women like guys way younger than them.
Best job for a guy in high school or college, is at a country club.
I am not kidding.
They all pretty much smell good and dress nice.
What more could you want.
Off the of my head, younger...…. and single????
Off the of my head, younger...…. and single????
I don't think any of this is true. Men are the same as they've always been, but the status of women has risen greatly in a short period of time. It's inevitable that many men are going to get left behind because of this, and because young men don't have an established career yet, it's going to hit them hardest. A lot of these young men won't be able to compete in the workplace no matter what they do, so there's little else to do but turn to video games, move in with parents, etc.
Young men are the same as they've always been. They have the same desires. They have the same abilities. I don't think they're losers as one poster insinuated but factors outside of their control are making it harder for them to establish independence and the social status they once had.Well, your "assumptions" are not true. Men are not the same as they have always been. Read this. which says that a majority of makes to age 34 now live at home which is a major departure from the past. They can compete in the work place if they want but they have little desire to. The work place is not male friendly and we have successfully neutered the male of our species to the point where living at home, sponging off mom and dad is not only accepted, it is expected. Video games replace many social activities, mating is one of them and provide the social outlet that most males on here experienced in our younger days. We also developed the male leadership skills to manage families and work while this is severely lacking in many young males currently. I know this will get some comments.
Of course human nature remains the same. And of course young men of today have the same basic desires, generally speaking, that they always have had. But, with all due respect for your opinion on this issue, I think your posts are begging the question. Of course, social and economic factors have harmed young men in our culture and caused them to flee into a kind of perpetual state of resignation. So you are correct to call me out for calling them "losers". But, in my defense, I was just repeating the term that scores of my female students have used to describe the young men on campus. In point of fact, I view my young male students who manifest these tendencies as victims of our emasculating culture rather than as willful lunkheads. Therefore, my point is simple (and this is not meant to be a super serious thread so I will not say more): whatever the reasons, many, many, many young men have opted out of the process of trying to advance themselves in life. Many young men have given up and manifest almost zero ambition for anything beyond adolescent pleasures.Young men are the same as they've always been. They have the same desires. They have the same abilities. I don't think they're losers as one poster insinuated but factors outside of their control are making it harder for them to establish independence and the social status they once had.
Been single for about 6 years and in my mid 50's. There are way more older women banging younger guys than vice versa. women on dating sites constantly get bombarded with messages from guys in their 20's and 30's. FWIW... been with ladies from 35 to 60 and those older ladies give it their all and don't want to stop. don't get me wrong, the younger gals do to but the older gals are more appreciative . they make you breakfastOf course human nature remains the same. And of course young men of today have the same basic desires, generally speaking, that they always have had. But, with all due respect for your opinion on this issue, I think your posts are begging the question. Of course, social and economic factors have harmed young men in our culture and caused them to flee into a kind of perpetual state of resignation. So you are correct to call me out for calling them "losers". But, in my defense, I was just repeating the term that scores of my female students have used to describe the young men on campus. In point of fact, I view my young male students who manifest these tendencies as victims of our emasculating culture rather than as willful lunkheads. Therefore, my point is simple (and this is not meant to be a super serious thread so I will not say more): whatever the reasons, many, many, many young men have opted out of the process of trying to advance themselves in life. Many young men have given up and manifest almost zero ambition for anything beyond adolescent pleasures.
Peace
Edit: So to bring it back to the OP... this is why many young women of today are turning to dating older men.
There has probably been a post on here that I've disagreed more with than this one, but I can't of it right now.I don't think any of this is true. Men are the same as they've always been, but the status of women has risen greatly in a short period of time. It's inevitable that many men are going to get left behind because of this, and because young men don't have an established career yet, it's going to hit them hardest. A lot of these young men won't be able to compete in the workplace no matter what they do, so there's little else to do but turn to video games, move in with parents, etc.
What you are describing is the effect of Feminism on the economy and the corporations.I don't think any of this is true. Men are the same as they've always been, but the status of women has risen greatly in a short period of time. It's inevitable that many men are going to get left behind because of this, and because young men don't have an established career yet, it's going to hit them hardest. A lot of these young men won't be able to compete in the workplace no matter what they do, so there's little else to do but turn to video games, move in with parents, etc.
I met my wife when I was 44 and she was 32. The 12 years isn't a problem at all.
In general, I think when a guy gets into his 40's, he becomes a lot more valuable to society, and not just in terms of money, but more so in terms of experience. Women naturally find that very attractive.
Me smells gold digger. Betcha the dude is well off and the gal is driving a 2005 Chevy Cavalier.Is that OK? Asking for a friend....and i'm actually really curious about others thoughts on it.
Don't complain about the OT please, like the board needs my opinion on AM or clock management, and the title gave it away. Plus, I don't care.
I completely forgot about my neighbor when I made an earlier comment on this topic. He has a house in a small town on Lake Chapala near Guadalajara. He spends 7-8 months there every year. ( When he is home he goes to Europe, mostly Italy, for 2-3 weeks. I accuse him of not liking us here in the neighborhood). He is 79 and his girlfriend in Mexico is 39. I think other than the 5-10 minutes a week they have sex I think it is pretty much a father/daughter relationship. I guess it works. They have been together for 6-7 years.
I’d be willing to lend my phone # and address to those ladies if they truly are frustrated with those younger guys!This is very true. In my discussions with my female college age students, what became very clear was their level of frustration with young men in their 20's. According to these girls, almost all of the younger guys are immature, video game addicted, porn addicted, losers. So many of these young women started dating guys who were over 40 just so they could be with someone who was mature and not a complete loser.
Lol. There are many who would respond I think!I’d be willing to lend my phone # and address to those ladies if they truly are frustrated with those younger guys!
The real issue is "why have kids?" Many women want to get married and start having babies dropping out of crotch ASAP, usually at the urging of soon-to-be grandparents.I'll be straight up. I'm in my 20s if some of you couldn't tell. Give me shit for it haha but I don't care. To be quite honest, this is a great thread to get us away from the same recycled posts, OP. I guess, in my mind, I pose the question to all : why get married at all?
Underrated post.So is the one on the left a "4" and the one on the right a "9"?
What is crazy to me is Asian women and their culture of service to American men, especially in the Philippines, are soo much different than American women. It's a real thing as I've seen it firsthand with one of my father's friends. More ways good than bad, too.Marrying a much younger woman is easy if you commit to marrying someone from another country. My wife is 27 years younger and we got married in less than eight weeks (Philippines). She’s here in the states for the last 2 plus years.
Both of us are happy. I have a YouTube channel called Love Beyond The Sea that exists to help foreigners know how to have a good relationship with a Filipina.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with a large age gap marriage. Just choose responsibly.
I'll be straight up. I'm in my 20s if some of you couldn't tell. Give me shit for it haha but I don't care. To be quite honest, this is a great thread to get us away from the same recycled posts, OP. I guess, in my mind, I pose the question to all : why get married at all?