Let's say the guy is 50, and a (cute) 36 y/o girl wants to date him cause she's into older men

[litespeedhuskerfan]

Is that OK? Asking for a friend....and i'm actually really curious about others thoughts on it.

Don't complain about the OT please, like the board needs my opinion on AM or clock management, and the title gave it away. Plus, I don't care.

 

[phoenix4nu]

If they’re both single, why not.

 

[husker2612]

If they are both ok with it and both single, yeah go for it. Good for him!

 

[steelclaw]

Huh? There isn’t anything remotely wrong with that. In the slightest.

 

[allen641]

50 here and yes I've dated that young. Have real expectations though, big differences in interests and energy.

 

[The_Glove_Man]

Pics or GTFO

 

[litespeedhuskerfan]

50 here and yes I've dated that young. Have real expectations though, big differences in interests and energy.

Wanna bet?

 

[TruHusker]

What does being cute have to do with it?

 

[litespeedhuskerfan]

What does being cute have to do with it?

I'm sorry, her body is also awesome. Like, awesome. So says my friend.

 

[Lincoln100]

Does she like to “date” a lot of older guys?

 

[HBK4life]

Too old IMO. He should be dating 18 year olds.

 

[cornhustler]

Is that OK

Go for it! A 36 year old woman is old.

 

[litespeedhuskerfan]

I really was curious, my daughter kind of turned her nose up at the idea, and it got me wondering what others thoughts were. Thanks.

 

[CatColumbia]

Nothing wrong at all. I know some guys in their 50s that are more active than folks in their 30s..

 

[mgbreis]

How does that FIFY thing work?

"cause she's into older men's money"

 

[litespeedhuskerfan]

How does that FIFY thing work?

"cause she's into older men's money"

She has more than the guy. I know. However, very valid concern most of the time.

 

[TheBeav815]

I say go for it. The ones trying to replace the daddy who never loved them are the best in bed.

 

[jlb321]

It all sounds great now ... but consider how things will be when you are 52 and she is 38.

 

[bigboxes]

It all sounds great now ... but consider how things will be when your friend is 52 and she is 38.

FIFY

 

[Pennsyhusker]

I see nothing wrong with it at all, so long as the young woman isn't looking for some kind of "daddy" figure. In other words, unless the young woman is kind of f$cked up. I knew a guy who was 58 who dated a girl who was 27. And they ended up getting married. They are still married ten years later. So it can work

 

[spartanhusker]

I say go for it. The ones trying to replace the daddy who never loved them are the best in bed.

Yikes.....

 

[workavoidance101]

Is that OK? Asking for a friend....and i'm actually really curious about others thoughts on it.

Don't complain about the OT please, like the board needs my opinion on AM or clock management, and the title gave it away. Plus, I don't care.

Divide the age by two, then add 7. This is the minimum age.
(50 / 2) + 7 = 32 ... So no problem.

Also, pics or GTFO.

 

[JohnRossEwing]

If we can identify as different genders...why can't we identify as different ages?

 

[Bremser]

Is that OK? Asking for a friend....and i'm actually really curious about others thoughts on it.

Don't complain about the OT please, like the board needs my opinion on AM or clock management, and the title gave it away. Plus, I don't care.

You have to verify that she is being honest. You have to REALLY be sure. If she's just using the age excuse to mask that she just wants you because you're super hot and buff, that is complete BS! Make her level with you and be honest with you before you take any action.

 

[litespeedhuskerfan]

I really appreciate it guys, serious. Nothing wrong with her at all, in fact she's the first girl I've dated, I mean my friend has dated, since his divorce, that was completely normal and didn't come from an abusive background. Great family, decent terms with her ex. It's all good.

 

[redwine65]

Is that OK? Asking for a friend....and i'm actually really curious about others thoughts on it.

Don't complain about the OT please, like the board needs my opinion on AM or clock management, and the title gave it away. Plus, I don't care.

not really ok, you should direct her more towards the 53 year old leos on this board

 

[21Husker1984]

 

[Pennsyhusker]

How does that FIFY thing work?

"cause she's into older men's money"

You gotta be careful of this. Even more than the daddy complex thing. As a former college prof I can tell you I saw a lot of college age girls dating guys in their late 40's and early 50's purely because these guys were sugar daddys. Some young girls think money and cars and trips and restaurants and designer clothes are more important than age and looks and so on. So if you are a rich dude in that age bracket... enjoy! Lol

 

[redwine65]

You gotta be careful of this. Even more than the daddy complex thing. As a former college prof I can tell you I saw a lot of college age girls dating guys in their late 40's and early 50's purely because these guys were sugar daddys. Some young girls think money and cars and trips and restaurants and designer clothes are more important than age and looks and so on. So if you are a rich dude in that age bracket... enjoy! Lol

that won't be a problem, hopefully she has money though..

 

[HuskerBlueDevil]

I'm 62 and I am dating a woman who is about to turn 31. It's not serious with either of us and we understand that. We just have fun together. And it's been since March. We'll just keep going until it isn't fun anymore.

 

[litespeedhuskerfan]

I'm 62 and I am dating a woman who is about to turn 31. It's not serious with either of us and we understand that. We just have fun together. And it's been since March. We'll just keep going until it isn't fun anymore.

DUDE!!!!!! (emoji bowing down as if I am not worthy here) MY MAN!!!!!!!!

 

[PeliniTheCrutch]

I really was curious, my daughter kind of turned her nose up at the idea, and it got me wondering what others thoughts were. Thanks.

You had your daughter when you were 14? And now you want to date her?! JFC!!!

 

[F5Tornado]

Here's a 49 y/o that might be interested in a date:

 

[DuecesWild969]

Here's a 49 y/o that might be interested in a date:

So is the one on the left a "4" and the one on the right a "9"?

 

[Hugo_Stiglitz7]

Here's a 49 y/o that might be interested in a date:

Hulk smash.

 

[Huskerfan2112]

A wise man once told me of the “ half plus seven” rule.

If you take your age, divide by half then add 7 years, thats the youngest she can be without it being creepy.

So in your case 32 is the number and 36 is all good.

That being said. Go for it you lucky bastard.

Edit: I missed this referenced above. Didnt mean to co opt another persons post

 

[tpmcg]

my rule is - older than my oldest daughter. shes 27. so 28.

fwiw, my wife is in total disagreement...we'll work something out.

 

[litespeedhuskerfan]

my rule is - older than my oldest daughter. shes 27. so 28.

fwiw, my wife is in total disagreement...we'll work something out.

 

[bigboxes]

I really appreciate it guys, serious. Nothing wrong with her at all, in fact she's the first girl I've dated, I mean my friend has date, that he hasn't paid for.

FIFY

 

[HuskerBlueDevil]

A wise man once told me of the “ half plus seven” rule.

If you take your age, divide by half then add 7 years, thats the youngest she can be without it being creepy.

So in your case 32 is the number and 36 is all good.

That being said. Go for it you lucky bastard.

Sorry, my version is divide your age in half and subtract 7. Works for me.

Reminds me of a joke: Two buddies are talking. The first one says "Me and the wife went to one of my old favorite hangouts the other night and when we walked in, all the guys there started shouting "pedo" and 'cradle robber' and stuff like that. Really bothered me."

His buddy says "Hey, you are 55 years old and you got a hot, 21 year old wife. You have to expect that sort of thing. Don't worry, those guys are all just jealous."

The first guy slowly nods his head and says "Maybe so. But it sure ruined our 10th wedding anniversary."