I can appreciate your response as you put some thought into it. Here's the deal though....
In your Williams example, Tyjon hadn't signed yet. He was fair game so of course Williams continued to show him love and work to flip him. And that was going to be true right up until signing day. You think Williams has love for Dez?
What's interesting to me are how badly Husker fans yearn for the Glory years. How do you think Wistrom and Peter treated opponents. How does our best player in the history of Nebraska football (Suh) play the game. How does Incognito treat people? Lawrence Phillips. Scott Frost. How many times have we heard "boy I sure wish we had a Tommie, Richie, Suh again. You know what? Those guys are some of the biggest jerks we have ever had at each position. They didn't care about people more than they cared about winning.
See our fans want to win and piss and moan about not winning championships but then they don't commit to having a savage mentality where they would step on their own mothers hand if she was on the other team and reaching for a fumbled football. Those guys I just mentioned would have. And we won.
People love Tysons record in the ring. His picture is listed in the dictionary next to the word savage. The second Mike stopped being Mike he lost badly.
It's rare when you can have it both ways. You either have that burning step on moms hand mentality or you dont. I don't blame or shame anyone here who doesn't have it. It is what it is. It's not for everyone. But results usually align with those who care very little about their opponent.
I highly doubt that Williams hopes that Dez or Calvin break their legs, tear an ACL or get caught up in drugs. Especially after developing a relationship with them over a year or two. And if he wants those things to happen, then he is a shit human. Also, to clarify, not having 'love' for Dez is completely different than wanting Dez to ruin his life by getting into drugs or ruining his career by tearing his knee up.
Yes, I want the players to have mean streaks. But I don't want our players to want opponents to get suspended or hurt before the game. I would much rather have players that want to compete against the best at their best and beat them that way. One way is being a coward and the other is not.
Again, I can't believe I have to make this distinction, having a mean streak or being a hard-nosed player like Suh/Riola/Peter/Incognito/etc is very different than celebrating a kid getting charged with a felony for getting caught up in drugs or for tearing an ACL and losing his future. Also, you are not a player. You shouldn't think of yourself as Jason Peter-esq and celebrate being a 'savage.' You are a dude on a message board, not a player.
Caring little about your opponent does not equal celebrating an opponents drug dealing conviction. The difference is pretty drastic.