I think if you’re a kid recognized for elite athletic upside at an early age and your family is not financially healthy, I can easily imagine a dad or mom gaslighting the kid to make them loyal and dependent.
Can definitely see that. But I’ve also seen successful young people sideline their deadbeat parents. It’s tough situation to navigate, especially if you have parents who aren’t necessarily “deadbeats” but they also don’t always make the best decisions and/or the best decisions for you.