I would LOVE it if you would please share your emails that you send out on the topic. If not, I totally understand.No reason to schedule meetings. Emails work just fine, it is 2016.
I would LOVE it if you would please share your emails that you send out on the topic. If not, I totally understand.No reason to schedule meetings. Emails work just fine, it is 2016.
That is what you trash talk about it? Really?As an Iowa fan I would love to see you keep him. The thought of having one more example of Nebraska selling their morals for W's (while not actually obtaining them) will make the trash talking with my husker friends amazingly easy in the near future. News flash you have to be drinking pretty heavily to get to a .15 (I don't care that he has a bunch of money and power and got the system down to .08) he made a horrible descision, that he has made multiple times before, and you guys a acting like he's a 20 year old that got a mip. Please keep him.
I would LOVE it if you would please share your emails that you send out on the topic. If not, I totally understand.
Nah, I think you fire him and let him deal with the consequences. You give him a list of treatment centers etc, and you let the professionals deal with it. The staff moves on and worries about coaching football this season.What I mean by helping him and not moving on doesn't involve retaining him. I would help him regardless if he's retained or let go. Help and not move on as in, give him all the support that's needed for him to better himself. Regardless if he's kept at Nebraska. All bets are off if he so chooses to decline it and accept a position elsewhere.
Your different opinion comment is strange, considering the misunderstanding.
Great thanks! I don't think he will be fired but who knows for sure at this point!If he's fired, and not offered any help, I'll be more than happy to do just that.
Nah, I think you fire him and let him deal with the consequences. You give him a list of treatment centers etc, and you let the professionals deal with it. The staff moves on and worries about coaching football this season.
While that may sound harsh, it allows everyone to focus on what is at hand, including KW.
News flash you have to be drinking pretty heavily to get to a .15
Maybe that happens in the short term, but he's actually better off having the time to deal with this situation for his long term health.Yep, cause losing a job never caused someone to have a drinking problem or increase their drinking.
It's his first problem @ NU.
So much for selling kids that the program is a family or unless you kick your family members out after they slip up.
It is a matter of perspective. To me taking 10 drinks in a week is a moderate drinker, so 10 in 3 hours to me is heavy.According to the chart below, the above isn't accurate.
http://www.drjoe.net.au/blood-alcohol-calculator/
10 drinks in 3 hours = .151 BAL
11 drinks in 4 hours = .156 BAL
11.5 drinks in 5 hours = .151 BAL
12.5 drink in 6 hours = .156 BAL
Maybe we have a different definition of drinking pretty heavily.
Nah, I think you fire him and let him deal with the consequences. You give him a list of treatment centers etc, and you let the professionals deal with it. The staff moves on and worries about coaching football this season.
While that may sound harsh, it allows everyone to focus on what is at hand, including KW.
It is a matter of perspective. To me taking 10 drinks in a week is a moderate drinker, so 10 in 3 hours to me is heavy.
Yeah, I don't think those are that accurate.According to the chart below, the above isn't accurate.
http://www.drjoe.net.au/blood-alcohol-calculator/
10 drinks in 3 hours = .151 BAL
11 drinks in 4 hours = .156 BAL
11.5 drinks in 5 hours = .151 BAL
12.5 drink in 6 hours = .156 BAL
Maybe we have a different definition of drinking pretty heavily.
Yeah, I don't think those are that accurate.
When I got my DUI in '09 I had been drinking for 6 hours and had about 20. I blew a .22 at the station. No fun....don't drink and drive.
I consider 10 drinks every week to be a moderate drinker whether consumed at two each weeknight, or 10 during a ballgame. However, if a person told me once a week he lines up 10 shots and drinks them in 5 minutes, well, I would have to think awhile about where to pigeonhole that guy.I can see that point. What if the 10 drinks in a week were consumed in 3 hours, and that's it? I know you may think it's unlikely that happens but can honestly say that's me. I rarely drink during the week, heck I rarely drink during the year outside of a holiday/birthday event. On football Saturday though, and I'll include the Super Bowl, I typically put down a 9-12 beers during a Husker game if I'm not attending it in person. Once the game is over, I switch to water unless it's a late game then I head to bed.
I'm getting off topic somewhat, my bad.
Are you guys seriously going to let an Iowa fan troll you by trying to pick apart his post with online BAC calculators? Nebraska looks really bad here no matter what happens with Williams. His actions were incredibly stupid and there is no sense in trying to defend it.
According to the chart below, the above isn't accurate.
http://www.drjoe.net.au/blood-alcohol-calculator/
10 drinks in 3 hours = .151 BAL
11 drinks in 4 hours = .156 BAL
11.5 drinks in 5 hours = .151 BAL
12.5 drink in 6 hours = .156 BAL
Maybe we have a different definition of drinking pretty heavily.
10 drinks in 3 hours isn't heavy drinking??? Wow, who the hell are you, Oliver Reed?
Don't know where anybody here has said he has only drank 3 times in his life, even reading between the lines... So stop acting as if people have been suggesting that. I know full well you are using sarcasm, but it only works if others have suggested that, which has not happened.
I don't have a problem with your last paragraph. If you think he should be gone, I can't argue against that. He screwed up and may have to pay the price for that. But I think you have gone overboard suggesting that some posters believe he has only gotten drunk 3 times in your life. If you believe some posters believe that, well, I'll give you an A+ for wishful thinking.
Maybe that happens in the short term, but he's actually better off having the time to deal with this situation for his long term health.
It's not about kicking your family members out, it's more about allowing him to focus on his issue and deal with it.
There is no way he can coach football and deal with this all at the same time. It's called tough love, and I understand not everyone is going to agree with it.
Nikki I am going to go out on a limb here and assume your a music fan. Your name appears to be taken from the guitarist from Motley Crew. Anyway, a musician by the name of Kurt Cobain (maybe you've herd of him) had a substance abuse problem. His wife and his band mates thought tough love was the answer to reaching him, it did the opposite. He blew his freaking head off with a shotgun after being on a week long heroin binge.
What he really needed was someone to talk to and something to be a part of. Not to be isolated. His group Nirvana wasn't playing shows nor was it recording. This left Kurt with too much time on his hands. (and I am sure you know this story)
Point being, often times then not, structure and being part of something helps people with substance abuse. Tough love hardly does. I am not against tough love as motivation, just against it with people with substance abuse issues.
You're right, there is no magic bullet that works for everyone.Nikki I am going to go out on a limb here and assume your a music fan. Your name appears to be taken from the guitarist from Motley Crew. Anyway, a musician by the name of Kurt Cobain (maybe you've herd of him) had a substance abuse problem. His wife and his band mates thought tough love was the answer to reaching him, it did the opposite. He blew his freaking head off with a shotgun after being on a week long heroin binge.
What he really needed was someone to talk to and something to be a part of. Not to be isolated. His group Nirvana wasn't playing shows nor was it recording. This left Kurt with too much time on his hands. (and I am sure you know this story)
Point being, often times then not, structure and being part of something helps people with substance abuse. Tough love hardly does. I am not against tough love as motivation, just against it with people with substance abuse issues.
He should be kept, how many of us could easily be in his does with a dui? Probably all at one point, doesnt matter if you got caught or not. He either has horrible luck or is not smart. Either way he deserves another chance.Yes or no, feel free to share your reasoning.
His DUI has been dropped to a misdemeanor.
No, I don't consider it heavy drinking.
I'm pretty sure 10 drinks in 3 hours would be considered heavy drinking. Shoot, more than 5 or 6 drinks makes me worthless the next day, and tired the following day.
Yeah, like many weekends since NU lost to Miami in the Rose Bowl - lost weekends.In another life, I felt like Ray Milland many times.
Crap 10 drinks in 3 hours would put me away for 2 days. BTW who is making the drinks, @rrthusker when he's courting the ladies at happy hour at 3pm or @Biff Bridges on a Friday afternoon after he's roped the biggest bad ass steer in the land. Either way I'm drinking coffee & eating bacon & eggs after 10 drinks..I'm pretty sure 10 drinks in 3 hours would be considered heavy drinking. Shoot, more than 5 or 6 drinks makes me worthless the next day, and tired the following day.
Crap 10 drinks in 3 hours would put me away for 2 days. BTW who is making the drinks, @rrthusker when he's courting the ladings at happy hour at 3pm or @Biff Bridges on a Friday afternoon after he's roped the biggest bad ass steer in the land. Either way I'm drinking coffee & eating bacon & eggs after 10 drinks..
Dude, I have the access codes to every retirement home in town & I know most of the dietitians. How do you think we respond to all the lift assists. I'm your wing man buddy.For my friends on RSS ladings are ladies in sparky's world.
Crap 10 drinks in 3 hours would put me away for 2 days. BTW who is making the drinks, @rrthusker when he's courting the ladies at happy hour at 3pm or @Biff Bridges on a Friday afternoon after he's roped the biggest bad ass steer in the land. Either way I'm drinking coffee & eating bacon & eggs after 10 drinks..
Truth be told, if I drink more than 3 or 4 drinks, I'm feeling it the next day. I just don't drink more than 2 or 3 drinks at a time that often any more. Gettin' old..
Getting old.