We live in the greater Denver area and stopped going downtown almost completely. We used to visit the natural history museum, the zoo, and go to Rockies games, but you can only watch an urban area steadily deteriorate so long before you start questioning why you are going there. We are also very tired of the extreme leftwing politics permeating everything. 2020 was really a major turning point for many of these big cities when the city councils and mayors started appeasing every rioting group. No longer are many of the big cities in this country anywhere near the places they once were. Washington DC, SF, Denver, Detroit, St Louis, Chicago, Memphis, New Orleans, Phily, Portland, Seattle, and NYC have all become pretty dangerous. I used to think every American school kid should visit DC. Now with all the car-jackings I'm not sure I'd recommend it. I once thought about moving to Portland, but no way I'd ever consider it now. Nobody can tell me that NYC wasn't a lot better off during the Rudy Giuliani days of the 90s.
I think it's time to stop visiting many of these big cities and give the smaller midsize cities, historic places, and our natural attractions more time and attention. Some of my favorites are Charleston, Savannah, Bozeman (and much of Montana), Utah, Santa Fe, NM, etc. And there are very interesting museums and attractions in less obvious places like Oklahoma, Arkansas, Wisconsin, and yes, Nebraska.