Here's what confuses me. We ask these players to take ownership of the team, to patrol it like Wistrom and Peter did in the late '90's and get all of their peers walking the same line by whatever means necessary. We call for a revival of the Unity Council (although I don't think I've seen that request yet this fall) and the players having more input on personnel decisions/repercussions along with it. But when the players have input on jersey and pant combos, that's a bridge too far.
You're right and I get the point you are trying to make, but the difference between the ownership of the players in the 90s and the ownership of these players is that in the 90s they weren't worried about something wussy like how they looked. All the cared about was holding each other accountable for getting shit done and kicking ass on the field. Ownership today evidently means deciding what looks cute and telling the staff where and when you want to play or you're leaving. (I realize this doesn't just happen at nebraska, but I doubt it flies at places like Bama and LSU)
That would be one major difference between players in the past and players today.