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How is this Guy not in Jail

Yeah that's not self defense. At no point during that did he seem threatened at all, the disagreement lasted for all of 5 seconds, he got pushed and he knocked her out.
 
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Yeah that's not self defense. At no point during that did he seem threatened at all, the disagreement lasted for all of 5 seconds, he got pushed and he knocked her out.
You're speaking for the defendant? You know what he felt?

Just throwing that out there. Fact is, you need to break away from all the emotion, chivary, and machismo, in order to assess this objectively. For the most part, most of the reactions/responses I am reading are emotional.
 
Defending himself does not mean slugging a person 100 pounds smaller and knocking her out. I guess we can disagree on this one.

Hell, you don't even hit a guy who (you know) is lightly pushing you and slapping you in the chest. It's disproportionate. It's like the Chinese taking your research drone and then launching nuclear missiles in retaliation. This guy is not a man. At worst this guy should have pushed her or restrained her.
 
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You all realize this took place more than 2 years ago right?

Nixon was found guilty and received a deferred sentence. He was suspended for the entire 2014 season.

The transcript of the incident has been out there since 2014 and if you read it, it is about as perfect a description of the incident that you could write.

The Oklahoma Supreme Court recently ordered the video to be released.
 
I know it happened about his first couple weeks on campus, the video will cause a lot more issues for him then a transcript.
 
You're speaking for the defendant? You know what he felt?

Just throwing that out there. Fact is, you need to break away from all the emotion, chivary, and machismo, in order to assess this objectively. For the most part, most of the reactions/responses I am reading are emotional.
Yes I am. I saw the video, I saw his body language and I saw the "threat" that was a small drunk girl who barely touched him. No rational person in his body would think that amount of force was necessary to protect himself. It's not emotion, it's common sense. It wasn't a persistent threat, he got pushed once and immediately hit her in the head as hard as he could. That is not self defense. Watch him walk away. Hes not scared, he's not worried, he lays her out and calmly walks away.
 
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Would Joe Mixon handle it different today? If yes, Then it was not right at all.
We're emotional animals. Unless you are willing to discredit human psychology and physiology, to say, after the fact, a spontaneous and emotional reaction is wrong, is subjective and biased.

Believe it or not, we are governed by our primitive brains. Those parts of our brains are designed to go off first. Before we're able to ask ourselves an ethical question.

Same reason you immediately pull your hand back from a fire or hot stove, and don't stop and ask yourself, "should I leave my hand on this very hot burner?"
 
Yes I am. I saw the video, I saw his body language and I saw the "threat" that was a small drunk girl who barely touched him. No rational person in his body would think that amount of force was necessary to protect himself. It's not emotion, it's common sense. It wasn't a persistent threat, he got pushed once and immediately hit her in the head as hard as he could. That is not self defense. Watch him walk away. Hes not scared, he's not worried, he lays her out and calmly walks away.
She pushed him then slapped him in the face. Then he hit her.

You need to realize I'm not advocating for Mixon, just pointing out the obvious points any defense attorney would use.
 
It looks like he was trying to intimidate the small boy, the girl stuck up for him, and he hit her like she was a gigantic man. Then got forcefully redshirted, and then it was like nothing ever happened. For the people that don't like speculation.
 
She came after him! Women these days think they can kick , hit, scratch etc., and the man is expected to just sit there and take it! I'm not saying he should have punched her but a good bitch slap would have been more appropriate!

Maybe I would. The fights I've been in never started with a little push in the chest by a female. I can't remember being pushed at all by a man, Guys come out swinging.

Where I live, if I had punched a women in the face like Mixon did I would be thrown in jail even if she had been the aggressor. Even verbal abuse against a women can get you thrown in jail if it's considered domestic violence.
 
Where I live, if I had punched a women in the face like Mixon did I would be thrown in jail even if she had been the aggressor. Even verbal abuse against a women can get you thrown in jail if it's considered domestic violence.

That's what I thought. Cops look for any signs of physical injury such as scratches, redness, blood, swelling and will arrest the perp here in Ca regardless of man or woman.
 
It looks like he was trying to intimidate the small boy, the girl stuck up for him, and he hit her like she was a gigantic man. Then got forcefully redshirted, and then it was like nothing ever happened. For the people that don't like speculation.

"The eventual police report and distant video, shown to a few dozen media in October 2014, piece together what happened next. Mixon, who had turned 18 the day before, walked into Pickleman's. Molitor told police Mixon, whom she did not know, directed a homosexual slur at her friend. Molitor shoved Mixon, who lunged back with a closed fist at his side. Molitor slapped at Mixon, who then hit her with a right hook that knocked Molitor off her feet. Her head slammed into a table as she fell to the ground. She suffered fractures in her jaw, cheekbone and other bones in her face.

Molitor was back in Texas by the evening of July 25, 2014. On July 28, she underwent an eight-hour surgery. She says she looked like Cyclops for a couple of weeks. She was on a liquid diet. She had no feeling on the left side of her face for six months."
 
Was that stand your ground? A little over the top Mixon she wasn't even a feminist. What damage could she have done to him really? He's lucky he's not under the jail for that but women need to realize this isn't the old days and you never know how these men are wired..
 
Was that stand your ground? A little over the top Mixon she wasn't even a feminist. What damage could she have done to him really? He's lucky he's not under the jail for that but women need to realize this isn't the old days and you never know how these men are wired..
Speculation does not matter. Sorry.

Just be happy you haven't been on the defendant side. Innocent until proven guilty is a fabrication, intended to give us common folk the illusion of protection.
 
You all realize this took place more than 2 years ago right?

Nixon was found guilty and received a deferred sentence. He was suspended for the entire 2014 season.

The transcript of the incident has been out there since 2014 and if you read it, it is about as perfect a description of the incident that you could write.

The Oklahoma Supreme Court recently ordered the video to be released.
Exactly. Why a video a couple years later matters is pointless.
 
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I have a couple different thoughts about it after watching the video a few times. First off, it is very clear that at 0:38 he is turning to leave when she gets up and shoves him. That was unprovoked. He then shoves back with more force. She then proceeds to put her hands up near the neck or the face (I can't tell if that is a slap or not) and he then smacks her very hard and knocks her to the ground. Very disproportional and clearly not self-defense.
However, I do want to say that I do think she was accountable for at least instigating what amounts to physical assault. She shoves, then he shoves, she appears to slap, then he appears to slap back much harder. Does the capability to do harm matter? What if we replace this girl with a 98 pound weakling guy? Would we then be saying it was self-defense and he was just defending himself.
Also, as a society we need to accept that women are not all frail, helpless creatures. Most girls now participate in athletics and adult women go to the gym. Many are very capable of doing harm. We shouldn't give one gender a free pass to commit what amounts to assault as long as it involves anther gender. Again, if we replace Mixon with a female athlete, would we still view this the same way?
 
It is completely different than hitting a guy. Could you imagine someone punching your mom?
 
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I have a couple different thoughts about it after watching the video a few times. First off, it is very clear that at 0:38 he is turning to leave when she gets up and shoves him. That was unprovoked. He then shoves back with more force. She then proceeds to put her hands up near the neck or the face (I can't tell if that is a slap or not) and he then smacks her very hard and knocks her to the ground. Very disproportional and clearly not self-defense.
However, I do want to say that I do think she was accountable for at least instigating what amounts to physical assault. She shoves, then he shoves, she appears to slap, then he appears to slap back much harder. Does the capability to do harm matter? What if we replace this girl with a 98 pound weakling guy? Would we then be saying it was self-defense and he was just defending himself.
Also, as a society we need to accept that women are not all frail, helpless creatures. Most girls now participate in athletics and adult women go to the gym. Many are very capable of doing harm. We shouldn't give one gender a free pass to commit what amounts to assault as long as it involves anther gender. Again, if we replace Mixon with a female athlete, would we still view this the same way?

It doesn't matter who the other person is, in general self defense may be used only to the extent necessary to protect yourself from the force being brought against you, i.e. just because someone starts an alteration does not give you a license to use whatever force you please against them. If her allegation is true that he started it all with a homo slur, that will help with her civil lawsuit against him.
 
It doesn't matter who the other person is, in general self defense may be used only to the extent necessary to protect yourself from the force being brought against you, i.e. just because someone starts an alteration does not give you a license to use whatever force you please against them. If her allegation is true that he started it all with a homo slur, that will help with her civil lawsuit against him.
I disagree. Assault and battery don't require that you actually succeed in physically harming a person. It only requires that you did actions that constitute the crime.
 
I disagree. Assault and battery don't require that you actually succeed in physically harming a person. It only requires that you did actions that constitute the crime.
Haven't chimed in yet, didn't really want to.

There are 3 answers as I see it.

1. Do nothing and walk away. (Nothing bad comes your way here)
2. Don't retaliate and report the gal. (Nothing bad comes your way here)
3. Fight back and put your fate in the hands of the legal system. (The backlash in this thread alone says plenty)

IMHO, 1 & 2 are really the only options.
 
I have a couple different thoughts about it after watching the video a few times. First off, it is very clear that at 0:38 he is turning to leave when she gets up and shoves him. That was unprovoked. He then shoves back with more force. She then proceeds to put her hands up near the neck or the face (I can't tell if that is a slap or not) and he then smacks her very hard and knocks her to the ground. Very disproportional and clearly not self-defense.
However, I do want to say that I do think she was accountable for at least instigating what amounts to physical assault. She shoves, then he shoves, she appears to slap, then he appears to slap back much harder. Does the capability to do harm matter? What if we replace this girl with a 98 pound weakling guy? Would we then be saying it was self-defense and he was just defending himself.
Also, as a society we need to accept that women are not all frail, helpless creatures. Most girls now participate in athletics and adult women go to the gym. Many are very capable of doing harm. We shouldn't give one gender a free pass to commit what amounts to assault as long as it involves anther gender. Again, if we replace Mixon with a female athlete, would we still view this the same way?

If you read the story behind the video, it seems that Mixon was looking for trouble when he came in. She stated didn't know the guy. When he threatened her friend, she pushed Mixon to get him away from her friend. Then she slapped him when he called her friend some homophobic slur. It was not exactly hurting this tough guy when he decked her with all his might. I would say the force was entirely disproportionate to what was needed to handle this female who was only defending her friend.
 
Haven't chimed in yet, didn't really want to.

There are 3 answers as I see it.

1. Do nothing and walk away. (Nothing bad comes your way here)
2. Don't retaliate and report the gal. (Nothing bad comes your way here)
3. Fight back and put your fate in the hands of the legal system. (The backlash in this thread alone says plenty)

IMHO, 1 & 2 are really the only options.

3) clearly warranted his arrest. But if 2) might well have led to her arrest, why is it negated because he did something after step 2? that's where I have an issue with the legal system when it involves altercations like this. You can't ignore the prior actions of one party just because they are smaller and less likley to result in injury.
 
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If you read the story behind the video, it seems that Mixon was looking for trouble when he came in. She stated didn't know the guy. When he threatened her friend, she pushed Mixon to get him away from her friend. Then she slapped him when he called her friend some homophobic slur. It was not exactly hurting this tough guy when he decked her with all his might. I would say the force was entirely disproportionate to what was needed to handle this female who was only defending her friend.
I never saw anything in the video that indicated he was going to physically attack her friend. He probably said something that provoked her, but words alone don't indicate a threat to someone's safety. I believe she was drunk and emotional and that played a part in her reaction, but the same may well be said of Mixon. In the end, I believe Mixon did deserve to be charged with battery. Her? I'm not sure. My point is that society and the legal system should not make this out to be entirely one-sided and completely exonerate her of any fault for what happened.
 
3) clearly warranted his arrest. But if 2) might well have led to her arrest, why is it negated because he did something after step 2? that's where I have an issue with the legal system when it involves altercations like this. You can't ignore the prior actions of one party just because they are smaller and less likley to result in injury.

There is no situation that a woman deserves to be laid out like that. Regardless, of what happened first. What kind of psycho hits a girl like that, after a push and open hand slap. Quit trying to justify it. Anyone that does that, and the ppl that stick up for their actions are giant pieces of shit!
 
It is completely different than hitting a guy. Could you imagine someone punching your mom?

Is your mom stupid enough to push and slap someone she doesn't know and has no idea how that person will react?
 
There is no situation that a woman deserves to be laid out like that. Regardless, of what happened first. What kind of psycho hits a girl like that, after a push and open hand slap. Quit trying to justify it. Anyone that does that, and the ppl that stick up for their actions are giant pieces of shit!
 
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Is your mom stupid enough to push and slap someone she doesn't know and has no idea how that person will react?

In the same situation she probably would have, because she would of stuck up for her friend, who gay or not, doesn't deserve to be intimidated and called names by anyone.
 
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Bill Burr is great. I just can't understand blaming the victim here. I understand it's a new world. Women want to be equals, but in a situation like this, he isn't scared for his well being. He's a punk, trying to start shit with a gay boy, and ending up knocking out a girl. Badass!
 
In the same situation she probably would have, because she would of stuck up for her friend, who gay or not, doesn't deserve to be intimidated and called names by anyone.

If your mom doesn't have the emotional maturity to deal with the situation differently than the girl in the video, then yes I can imagine her getting decked.

He could of killed her, hitting her like that. Any man on here saying this is okay, because he got a slap in the face, is freaking ridiculous!

She could've poked him in the eye causing permanent damage denying him a possible position on an NFL roster. I know it's not as exciting, but try limiting the discussion to what actually happened instead of a bunch of hypothetical situations.
 
If your mom doesn't have the emotional maturity to deal with the situation differently than the girl in the video, then yes I can imagine her getting decked.



She could've poked him in the eye causing permanent damage denying him a possible position on an NFL roster. I know it's not as exciting, but try limiting the discussion to what actually happened instead of a bunch of hypothetical situations.

Ha. So, you're that guy? Black and white?
 
Sounds like a hate crime if there was a homophobic slur. Could have been a much bigger penalty for that alone.
 
Plus, emotional maturity? Really? You're standing up for a guy that is mature enough to hit a woman? How many times have you been mad enough to hit a woman? Regardless of how intoxicated?
 
you stick up for your friends. That guy should not be stuck up for! You should feel like a horrible person, because you would stick up for someone you care about, and would of got fugged up like her. Then someone would of been like, "he shouldn't of done this!" And you would of been like, "I was trying to do the right thing."
 
I didn't even think about the possibility of getting poked in the eye.
This changes everything.
 
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