It's a recurring theme all over college basketball and getting worse in football. We have a generation with a lot of entitled youth who think it's all owed to them. Disrespect them and they pout and quit. If they don't get what they want pout and quit. It's too tough and they pout and quit. Back in the day, the only player on my teams like that was me...
My following comments/opinions are not in regards to the JT situation, but just transferring in basketball as a whole.
I used to have the attitude that college players should stick it out and work harder, and not be transferring. I've pretty much done a 180 the older I get, and I don't really even have much of an issue with it down to the high school level,
depending on the circumstances.
Basketball is a funny game. There's so many ways to play offense. Add to that every player has a different skill set, different strengths, different weaknesses, and different God given abilities. Some guys get to a place and after a couple of years they realize that they are a square peg, and they don't fit into that coach's round hole.
If you go with the assumption that all players have a chance if they just work hard enough, then you must believe that all coaches are completely objective and completely free of biases, and always make the best decisions. That is not always the case. Coaches are not perfect people. Coaches can have favorites. Some coaches will always fall back on certain measurables which could favor one player over another. Some coaches (even in high school) will make it clear to a player or players at the end of a season that they will never play a significant minutes or play at all (and no amount of off season work on their skills will change their opinions).
College and even high school players can see the writing on the wall, and their playing seasons are limited. There are no mulligans, and they only have one shot at life. If a kid has a goal of playing in college at any level, again if the circumstances are correct, let them transfer somewhere else. Sometimes kids just need a new start somewhere else.
Regarding JT, I obviously don't have all the information, just rumors. He's almost half way through his college playing eligibility. I think Miles has certainly been patient with JT, and has given him ample opportunities. So either JT doesn't have IT yet, doesn't have IT and never will, doesn't get IT, or possibly feels that this staff can't help him get IT.
I think JT has a lot of potential, but I'm not sure how you recover from a situation where you don't go on the road with your team for a potentially winnable conference game. The damage may be done and irreversible.