You are spot on! People just look for an excuse for there actions
What else is new? This is the paradigm of Americans; what's personal responsibility?
What is sad is there have been so many ridiculous false rape claims on university campuses in recent years, along with this crazy feminazi, anti-men schtick going on at some of these colleges that it is hard to take claims serious until the time someone is actually convicted.
This has all backfired on the radical left. Now people are more inclined to doubt true victims and true victims may be less likely to step forward.
I know a couple of friends who were falsely accused; it ruined their lives. Why there is no penalty for making false, claims, I have no idea. There may be, but it is hardly enforced. Men are not protected by the law at all; we've completely changed the paradigm. That is why I never drive alone with a female, or am alone in a room with a female, unless there is a dire situation, especially if I do not know them well. Nowadays, you can never be careful. In these situations, emotions often trump logic. The accusers had completely illogical stories, that only an idiot would believe, but two went to trial (both were exonerated, but their lives/reputations were ruined nonetheless), and the other was dropped by the Grand jury. I don't know who to believe anymore. 16 years is awfully long; it's seems like a money grab to me, even if she was raped. If she settles, or wins, look for more universities to be sued by women "coming forward".
if I was the judge I'd tell her to take responsibility for her actions, decisions, attitude and quit blaming everyone else for her life's problems
The judge would lose his job; even though he would be speaking the truth. Yes, I believe in personal responsibility, even though it offends the majority (what ISN'T "offensive"?). I am a high level manager/leader, and I make sure that everyone takes responsibility. I do not tolerate excuses. If she was raped, then someone needs to pay. Guys get drunk and do stupid things too, but they are held to a far higher standard than their female counterparts. It may be offensive, but it's the truth. In the workplace, I have to be VERY careful when I have to discipline, or terminate a female employee. Of course, I will always have another person with me in the office when I have to. I had one female threaten to sue me through Title IX; I fired her for repeated use of profanity and threatening other co-workers. I had documentation and witnesses, so we are prepared to fight it, and we will likely counter-sue if she decides to pursue it. Title IX has its purposes, but often, it oversteps its bounds. I have had multiple instances in which females were hired over me, just based on Title IX related (I was even told that one company had too many males, and therefore, had to hire females, regardless of qualifications). I base promotions and performance reviews based on meritocracy; if a female is the best one for the promotion, I will promote her; if not, then I will promote someone else. This whole equality paradigm has swung the pendulum completely in the opposite direction.
I pray to God you are never on a jury if you have determined all of this from one article. Disgusting...
I believe that he and the "Urban Meyer" poster were using satire. Don't take everything so literally. I use satire all of the time (I didn't in this post), and I laugh when other people become offended; generally, one person out of 50 is able to read between the lines.