“Idk you ask him?” Really? You are the one crabbing about the message and your priest, but you don’t know what it is and you can’t answer my question? That’s weird. I’d ask the wannabes, except I’m not sure where they are because, despite the apparent huge %, I don’t seem to ever have encountered one. You seem to be inundated with them though, so if you want to give me a name or two (or more), I would love to have the conversation.
Some priests are more effective and better at their jobs than others, as in every other vocation. I would encourage you to focus on the teachings of the church, those have never changed. If you don’t like your parish, try another one if feasible.