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Ahman Green

I couldn't find any details about the charges. Always thought he was a good guy, hopefully I'm not proven wrong.
 
"Child abuse" can mean a lot of different things. Some are bad and some are just being a parent.
 
It says its a family issue. I would guess maybe a step child got mouthy and he smacked him around. If thats the case (which im not sure if it is) then I feel his pain. My GFs kid is a 13 year old douchebag. I had to call the cops to have him arrested for theft and then had him commited. I told the cop that it would be best if he takes him cuz I want to smack the shit out of him. The cop gave me instructions in how to "discipline" without getting in trouble. He said dont leave bruises and marks have to be gone in 24 hours. So basically, smack the shit out of him but not in the same spot 2x.
 
It says its a family issue. I would guess maybe a step child got mouthy and he smacked him around. If thats the case (which im not sure if it is) then I feel his pain. My GFs kid is a 13 year old douchebag. I had to call the cops to have him arrested for theft and then had him commited. I told the cop that it would be best if he takes him cuz I want to smack the shit out of him. The cop gave me instructions in how to "discipline" without getting in trouble. He said dont leave bruises and marks have to be gone in 24 hours. So basically, smack the shit out of him but not in the same spot 2x.

Kind of messed up for a cop to say that in my opinion.
 
According to a criminal complaint, Green's daughter told police that he struck her in the face in a dispute over getting her to do the dishes. She also said he threw her to the ground and against kitchen cabinets.

According to the complaint, Green told deputies he ''may have'' thrown his daughter to the ground and against cabinets. He said he slapped her in the head and believed he may have hit her glasses, causing a swollen eye, according to the complaint.
 
Well, if the cops are called out to a location and they see any sign of injury they may have to arrest based on the law. This may just be to ensure the safety of the "victim". Ahman was only arrested at this point. Charges may never be brought forward. I sure hope it's just one of those the kid was lipping off or such. I hate child abuse, but I do know that my mother knew how to wield the "board of education".
 
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It says its a family issue. I would guess maybe a step child got mouthy and he smacked him around. If thats the case (which im not sure if it is) then I feel his pain. My GFs kid is a 13 year old douchebag. I had to call the cops to have him arrested for theft and then had him commited. I told the cop that it would be best if he takes him cuz I want to smack the shit out of him. The cop gave me instructions in how to "discipline" without getting in trouble. He said dont leave bruises and marks have to be gone in 24 hours. So basically, smack the shit out of him but not in the same spot 2x.
There's a lot going on in this post but it's your life, so ...
 
Spanking a bottom on a toddler for running into the street is one thing. Slapping across the face and throwing to the ground is another. That's over the top, no matter what all of y'alls abusive daddies did back in the day. It's inappropriate, and triply so because she's female, and her "offense" was so minor. But the daddy abuse stories do explain a lot of the behavior on this board.
 
According to the complaint, Green told deputies he ''may have'' thrown his daughter to the ground and against cabinets. He said he slapped her in the head and believed he may have hit her glasses, causing a swollen eye, according to the complaint.

Wow Ahman Green needs to learn that you should never actually give details like that to a cop. Makes the DA's job super ****ing easy.
 
Everybody is walking on eggshells anymore. You can't tell a young girl at work she looks nice or make your daughter do the dishes.
 
There really isn't a justification for the type of behavior that has been admitted to by AG, perhaps unless his daughter was coming at him with a kitchen knife.
 
Spanking a bottom on a toddler for running into the street is one thing. Slapping across the face and throwing to the ground is another. That's over the top, no matter what all of y'alls abusive daddies did back in the day. It's inappropriate, and triply so because she's female, and her "offense" was so minor. But the daddy abuse stories do explain a lot of the behavior on this board.

My friend has a 13 year old daughter and she is psycho and yells and screams and throws things and slaps and hits my friend and has done it to my brother.

She is a piece of sh!t and just acting like her mom did when she was a young teenager.

When a 13 year old girl yells are the top of her lungs and slaps you and hits you and degrades you, what do you do?

When your kids refuse to do anything you ask or tell them to do, what do you do?

These are things that have very few right answers, but many wrong answers. If someone attacks you, you have the right to defend yourself.

Many times, these things happen because the parent did not parent the teenager when the kid was young. Respect should be taught at a young age.

Kids should be scared of their parents... to a point. Not physically scared per se. But they need to understand who the parents are and who the kid is.

Unfortunately, kids that were parented correctly when young still can turn out like this... that's why parenting is hard.
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I was physically abused by my father growing up and I was deathly scared of him until he had cancer in 2011. Now I just hate him like I always have.

My brother was taken down into the pasture and my dad beat the sh!t out of him. This was threatened to me before.
I have been punched in the face by him, had my ass kicked by him millions of times, been sitting in the front seat of the pickup by him and had him punch me repeatedly, been grabbed by the throat and pressed up against a wall by him, etc etc etc.

I was not a bad kid. My father was just overly abusive.

With that in mind, I believe in spanking and discipline that fits the crime, but not punching, beating, etc. If a female attacks a male, he has the right to defend himself.

My wife used to be a social worker to help families get their kids back and she was never safe in these homes as the kids literally could get away with murder before something would be done to stop them.
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With all of that said...

If Ahman's step daughter physically pushed him and slapped him, he may do it back, but only to defend himself and only with enough force needed to defend himself.
If someone of lesser power attacks you, you do not have the right to knock the living sh!t out of them unless it is needed to save your life.
 
My friend has a 13 year old daughter and she is psycho and yells and screams and throws things and slaps and hits my friend and has done it to my brother.

She is a piece of sh!t and just acting like her mom did when she was a young teenager.

When a 13 year old girl yells are the top of her lungs and slaps you and hits you and degrades you, what do you do?

When your kids refuse to do anything you ask or tell them to do, what do you do?

These are things that have very few right answers, but many wrong answers. If someone attacks you, you have the right to defend yourself.

Many times, these things happen because the parent did not parent the teenager when the kid was young. Respect should be taught at a young age.

Kids should be scared of their parents... to a point. Not physically scared per se. But they need to understand who the parents are and who the kid is.

Unfortunately, kids that were parented correctly when young still can turn out like this... that's why parenting is hard.
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I was physically abused by my father growing up and I was deathly scared of him until he had cancer in 2011. Now I just hate him like I always have.

My brother was taken down into the pasture and my dad beat the sh!t out of him. This was threatened to me before.
I have been punched in the face by him, had my ass kicked by him millions of times, been sitting in the front seat of the pickup by him and had him punch me repeatedly, been grabbed by the throat and pressed up against a wall by him, etc etc etc.

I was not a bad kid. My father was just overly abusive.

With that in mind, I believe in spanking and discipline that fits the crime, but not punching, beating, etc. If a female attacks a male, he has the right to defend himself.

My wife used to be a social worker to help families get their kids back and she was never safe in these homes as the kids literally could get away with murder before something would be done to stop them.
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With all of that said...

If Ahman's step daughter physically pushed him and slapped him, he may do it back, but only to defend himself and only with enough force needed to defend himself.
If someone of lesser power attacks you, you do not have the right to knock the living sh!t out of them unless it is needed to save your life.

Damn. That is a sad story. Sure glad my parents were not abusive.
 
My friend has a 13 year old daughter and she is psycho and yells and screams and throws things and slaps and hits my friend and has done it to my brother.

She is a piece of sh!t and just acting like her mom did when she was a young teenager.

When a 13 year old girl yells are the top of her lungs and slaps you and hits you and degrades you, what do you do?

When your kids refuse to do anything you ask or tell them to do, what do you do?

These are things that have very few right answers, but many wrong answers. If someone attacks you, you have the right to defend yourself.

Many times, these things happen because the parent did not parent the teenager when the kid was young. Respect should be taught at a young age.

Kids should be scared of their parents... to a point. Not physically scared per se. But they need to understand who the parents are and who the kid is.

Unfortunately, kids that were parented correctly when young still can turn out like this... that's why parenting is hard.
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I was physically abused by my father growing up and I was deathly scared of him until he had cancer in 2011. Now I just hate him like I always have.

My brother was taken down into the pasture and my dad beat the sh!t out of him. This was threatened to me before.
I have been punched in the face by him, had my ass kicked by him millions of times, been sitting in the front seat of the pickup by him and had him punch me repeatedly, been grabbed by the throat and pressed up against a wall by him, etc etc etc.

I was not a bad kid. My father was just overly abusive.

With that in mind, I believe in spanking and discipline that fits the crime, but not punching, beating, etc. If a female attacks a male, he has the right to defend himself.

My wife used to be a social worker to help families get their kids back and she was never safe in these homes as the kids literally could get away with murder before something would be done to stop them.
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With all of that said...

If Ahman's step daughter physically pushed him and slapped him, he may do it back, but only to defend himself and only with enough force needed to defend himself.
If someone of lesser power attacks you, you do not have the right to knock the living sh!t out of them unless it is needed to save your life.
Wow, heartbreaking story. Much good in this world, but it can be a scary, ugly place too. My sincerest wish is you came through the abuse basically alright physically, mentally and spiritually. I know Beach Boy Brian Wilson's dad hit him with a board in the side of his head and he was thereafter deaf in that ear. He made all that great music in mono. His upbringing led to many substance abuse and other problems (weight, mental) later in life.
 
You don't hit a woman or throw them to the ground - especially a teenage girl.

Let's stop concocting scenarios where it might have been ok.
Don't pretend girls/women aren't capable of getting the response they are after.
 
So let me get this straight.

The board has two threads going, sometimes next to one another, in which some posters are pasting a father for pulling his son out of school because he's not concentrating on what's important; while in another some posters are justifying or excusing a 40 year old man punching or shoving his daughter to the floor because, apparently, they're incapable of resolving a dishwashing dispute. Seriously.

If as a parent the only decision you make when dealing with an unruly teenager is to hit or not hit, then the parent is at least as immature as the teenager.
 
What about the time when I was a foster parent and the cops had to throw my teenage foster daughter to the ground and cuff her?


Are you really asking if this is an appropriate time to physically assault your own daughter? Am I living in Bizarro world? This cant be a real question??

The answer would be no.
 
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Just throwing this out there. Bo Jackson's mom used to beat his ass with an extension cord or a switch from a willow tree because he freely admits he was a bad kid who ran wild with no father figure. He also stated that without his mom keeping his ass in line he would be dead or in jail. So would this be different if Ahman slapped his son instead of daughter? Also...should Bo's mom have been arrested and charged with a felony??
 
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Just to add a little levity to this thread and the whole "it's never ok to hit a woman". Daniel Tosh once made a joke about that..saying..."Why does every subject have to be so black or white in this Mickey mouse country"? If I come home and the wife has drowned 2 of my kids and she's getting ready to dunk the third..is it ok to pop her then?? For the record, I've never hit a woman even though one crazy one popped me and she had it coming. Every situation is not just black or white. Shades of grey many times.
 
While I appreciate the old school notions of chivalry and manly restraint I'm not sure that they are applicable in our society.

Husbands, Fathers, Sons and Brothers have a right and duty to be men...even...manly men.

You see a woman slapping your kids? Be a father and beat the s**t out of her.

Some chick ruffing up your wife? Be a husband and administer a righteous beat down preferably with your sons if you have them.

Lady slapping around mom in the park? Ass kicking time.

A woman's vagina should not protect them from justice.

Anything else is sexism...and we wouldn't want that.

Go Blue!
 
Just to add a little levity to this thread and the whole "it's never ok to hit a woman". Daniel Tosh once made a joke about that..saying..."Why does every subject have to be so black or white in this Mickey mouse country"? If I come home and the wife has drowned 2 of my kids and she's getting ready to dunk the third..is it ok to pop her then?? For the record, I've never hit a woman even though one crazy one popped me and she had it coming. Every situation is not just black or white. Shades of grey many times.
I sort of understand this sentiment but don't get how it applies here. He basically admitted he hit his teenage daughter in the face and threw her because of a dispute about doing the dishes. Unless he left out the part about her drowning children it seems pretty black and white.
 
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Just to add a little levity to this thread and the whole "it's never ok to hit a woman". Daniel Tosh once made a joke about that..saying..."Why does every subject have to be so black or white in this Mickey mouse country"? If I come home and the wife has drowned 2 of my kids and she's getting ready to dunk the third..is it ok to pop her then?? For the record, I've never hit a woman even though one crazy one popped me and she had it coming. Every situation is not just black or white. Shades of grey many times.

Ok well now your discussing two different things.. yes, there are times when hitting a woman would not be looked down upon.. if a woman is coming at me with a weapon or with the intention to cause harm to you or your family. you have to do what ever means necessary to avoid that from happening.

this thread is talking about assisting your child as a form of punishment. that's not ok, regardless of what they did.
 
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