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You can be arrested for today for discipline that was routine 40 years ago.
Agree. But does not look good. They wasted no time arresting him, and holding him without bail.You can be arrested for today for discipline that was routine 40 years ago.
It says its a family issue. I would guess maybe a step child got mouthy and he smacked him around. If thats the case (which im not sure if it is) then I feel his pain. My GFs kid is a 13 year old douchebag. I had to call the cops to have him arrested for theft and then had him commited. I told the cop that it would be best if he takes him cuz I want to smack the shit out of him. The cop gave me instructions in how to "discipline" without getting in trouble. He said dont leave bruises and marks have to be gone in 24 hours. So basically, smack the shit out of him but not in the same spot 2x.
We have many quality ex RB's as well. Ameer and Rex to name a couple. The good pub just doesn't get the same coverage as the bad pub.WTF is it about so many of our ex RB's????
There's a lot going on in this post but it's your life, so ...It says its a family issue. I would guess maybe a step child got mouthy and he smacked him around. If thats the case (which im not sure if it is) then I feel his pain. My GFs kid is a 13 year old douchebag. I had to call the cops to have him arrested for theft and then had him commited. I told the cop that it would be best if he takes him cuz I want to smack the shit out of him. The cop gave me instructions in how to "discipline" without getting in trouble. He said dont leave bruises and marks have to be gone in 24 hours. So basically, smack the shit out of him but not in the same spot 2x.
According to the complaint, Green told deputies he ''may have'' thrown his daughter to the ground and against cabinets. He said he slapped her in the head and believed he may have hit her glasses, causing a swollen eye, according to the complaint.
Yeah he could also just not abuse his kid just to be safeWow Ahman Green needs to learn that you should never actually give details like that to a cop. Makes the DA's job super ****ing easy.
Spanking a bottom on a toddler for running into the street is one thing. Slapping across the face and throwing to the ground is another. That's over the top, no matter what all of y'alls abusive daddies did back in the day. It's inappropriate, and triply so because she's female, and her "offense" was so minor. But the daddy abuse stories do explain a lot of the behavior on this board.
My friend has a 13 year old daughter and she is psycho and yells and screams and throws things and slaps and hits my friend and has done it to my brother.
She is a piece of sh!t and just acting like her mom did when she was a young teenager.
When a 13 year old girl yells are the top of her lungs and slaps you and hits you and degrades you, what do you do?
When your kids refuse to do anything you ask or tell them to do, what do you do?
These are things that have very few right answers, but many wrong answers. If someone attacks you, you have the right to defend yourself.
Many times, these things happen because the parent did not parent the teenager when the kid was young. Respect should be taught at a young age.
Kids should be scared of their parents... to a point. Not physically scared per se. But they need to understand who the parents are and who the kid is.
Unfortunately, kids that were parented correctly when young still can turn out like this... that's why parenting is hard.
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I was physically abused by my father growing up and I was deathly scared of him until he had cancer in 2011. Now I just hate him like I always have.
My brother was taken down into the pasture and my dad beat the sh!t out of him. This was threatened to me before.
I have been punched in the face by him, had my ass kicked by him millions of times, been sitting in the front seat of the pickup by him and had him punch me repeatedly, been grabbed by the throat and pressed up against a wall by him, etc etc etc.
I was not a bad kid. My father was just overly abusive.
With that in mind, I believe in spanking and discipline that fits the crime, but not punching, beating, etc. If a female attacks a male, he has the right to defend himself.
My wife used to be a social worker to help families get their kids back and she was never safe in these homes as the kids literally could get away with murder before something would be done to stop them.
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With all of that said...
If Ahman's step daughter physically pushed him and slapped him, he may do it back, but only to defend himself and only with enough force needed to defend himself.
If someone of lesser power attacks you, you do not have the right to knock the living sh!t out of them unless it is needed to save your life.
Wow, heartbreaking story. Much good in this world, but it can be a scary, ugly place too. My sincerest wish is you came through the abuse basically alright physically, mentally and spiritually. I know Beach Boy Brian Wilson's dad hit him with a board in the side of his head and he was thereafter deaf in that ear. He made all that great music in mono. His upbringing led to many substance abuse and other problems (weight, mental) later in life.My friend has a 13 year old daughter and she is psycho and yells and screams and throws things and slaps and hits my friend and has done it to my brother.
She is a piece of sh!t and just acting like her mom did when she was a young teenager.
When a 13 year old girl yells are the top of her lungs and slaps you and hits you and degrades you, what do you do?
When your kids refuse to do anything you ask or tell them to do, what do you do?
These are things that have very few right answers, but many wrong answers. If someone attacks you, you have the right to defend yourself.
Many times, these things happen because the parent did not parent the teenager when the kid was young. Respect should be taught at a young age.
Kids should be scared of their parents... to a point. Not physically scared per se. But they need to understand who the parents are and who the kid is.
Unfortunately, kids that were parented correctly when young still can turn out like this... that's why parenting is hard.
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I was physically abused by my father growing up and I was deathly scared of him until he had cancer in 2011. Now I just hate him like I always have.
My brother was taken down into the pasture and my dad beat the sh!t out of him. This was threatened to me before.
I have been punched in the face by him, had my ass kicked by him millions of times, been sitting in the front seat of the pickup by him and had him punch me repeatedly, been grabbed by the throat and pressed up against a wall by him, etc etc etc.
I was not a bad kid. My father was just overly abusive.
With that in mind, I believe in spanking and discipline that fits the crime, but not punching, beating, etc. If a female attacks a male, he has the right to defend himself.
My wife used to be a social worker to help families get their kids back and she was never safe in these homes as the kids literally could get away with murder before something would be done to stop them.
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With all of that said...
If Ahman's step daughter physically pushed him and slapped him, he may do it back, but only to defend himself and only with enough force needed to defend himself.
If someone of lesser power attacks you, you do not have the right to knock the living sh!t out of them unless it is needed to save your life.
Don't pretend girls/women aren't capable of getting the response they are after.You don't hit a woman or throw them to the ground - especially a teenage girl.
Let's stop concocting scenarios where it might have been ok.
Rule #1 You don't hit a woman or throw them to the ground - especially a teenage girl.
Rule #2 If you think of scenarios where it might have been ok, see Rule 1.
What about the time when I was a foster parent and the cops had to throw my teenage foster daughter to the ground and cuff her?
What about the time when I was a foster parent and the cops had to throw my teenage foster daughter to the ground and cuff her?
I sort of understand this sentiment but don't get how it applies here. He basically admitted he hit his teenage daughter in the face and threw her because of a dispute about doing the dishes. Unless he left out the part about her drowning children it seems pretty black and white.Just to add a little levity to this thread and the whole "it's never ok to hit a woman". Daniel Tosh once made a joke about that..saying..."Why does every subject have to be so black or white in this Mickey mouse country"? If I come home and the wife has drowned 2 of my kids and she's getting ready to dunk the third..is it ok to pop her then?? For the record, I've never hit a woman even though one crazy one popped me and she had it coming. Every situation is not just black or white. Shades of grey many times.
Just to add a little levity to this thread and the whole "it's never ok to hit a woman". Daniel Tosh once made a joke about that..saying..."Why does every subject have to be so black or white in this Mickey mouse country"? If I come home and the wife has drowned 2 of my kids and she's getting ready to dunk the third..is it ok to pop her then?? For the record, I've never hit a woman even though one crazy one popped me and she had it coming. Every situation is not just black or white. Shades of grey many times.
why is it different because it's a girl? Some of the worst kids I've seen are 15 year old girls.Yes. Different if it is a 15 year old son.
I think the statute of limitations is expired on Bo's mom.