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Sticking with what you have! (Long)

big red22

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This is something I have been thinking for a long time. So I was thinking what if I was in the recruits shoes.

We sit here before National Signing Day all freaking out about what recruit we are going to get. How they are going to make Nebraska better. How it will bring us back championships if it all goes right!

Well this is a post to think about the other side of things and how our wants and needs could be affecting the student athletes emotional psyche. I'm not going to sit here and say I know that this is fact for all student athletes, but I do believe it plays a great deal into their lives.

What am I talking about exactly?

Consistency!

How do we keep it? We need to let this coaching staff build from each other. Not more than two weeks ago we had a Defensive Coordinator in Mark Banker. Now we have Bob Diaco(I hope all goes well with him, and I have nothing against him or the move to get him). While I agree Banker wasn't producing a championship caliber defense, I would bet he building quite a few relationships with the kids he was coaching.

At Nebraska it is different ball game. At Nebraska we don't have a beach, and fantastic weather. We aren't close to anywhere of relevance. So when a kid commits to Nebraska it is easy to say "You are playing for the name on your Jersey not for the Coaches!".

Are they?

Growing up in Nebraska it is easy to know that Nebraska football is everything. We live and breath it, so we know how important it is. These kids coming from California, Oklahoma, Texas, Florida, Delaware, Ohio ect... they don't live and breath Nebraska football like us. They may say it interview, but they don't.

These kids do know that our fans are as passionate as they come, but that is not why they are committing to Nebraska. These kids grow relationships with a coach, and the rest of it they come to know about later. Once they start going to school here, and actually play a few football games.

That brings me to this. If I was a recruit that committed to play for Banker, Hughes or Stewart back in 2015 how would I be feeling right now? I left my family and friends to go play football in the middle of the United States, 1,500 miles away from home. Only to find out that the person I had the closest relationship with is now gone.

Once again if that recruit was me, I know that I would feel like I lost the reason I joined the school. I most likely would have made multiple friendships outside of football, but the main reason I committed is now no longer there.

I know it is a business, and these kids soon will find out that all things in life revolve around business. At the age of 18, I can tell you I would make my decision off of what coach I get along with the most. Not even thinking about he could be gone, before my college days are over.

Since 2002, there has been no consistency and I honestly think that the emotional investment these kids have when they commit leave at every coaching change. Mike Riley is doing it a little different than the last few coaches. He looks to be making decisions to better our staff. All while keeping a familiarity around the program.

Things like cleaning house can't happen. Kids aren't going to want to play for a completely different coaching staff that they have no relationship with. At Nebraska it is even worse when we do something like that, because most of our kids live more than 500 miles away.

I'm not going to get into the details of how I felt about each Firing of our head coaches, but the only one I was a 100% on board with was Bo Pelini, because he was making the players play for themselves and not the school. That is not how Nebraska works!

This coaching staff seems to get it. This coaching staff seems to be doing everything the right way. I know wins and losses may be the end all, be all. Keeping the consistency and familiarity with Riley and who he appoints on his staff is far more important IMO.

I know there are people that aren't on board with Riley. Some people want a new coach. Some just like to complain to complain. In my opinion we let Riley continue to coach here until he is ready to leave, and when he leaves we need to keep some of his coaches on board and maintain the consistency that is needed for success.

Here's to all the recruits that think Nebraska is the place for them, and here's to the coaches for making Nebraska a "Home" again.

Thank You

AND

GBR!
 
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What recruits committed to Banker, Hughes, or Stewart? I think Donte will easily replace the Stewart relationships.

Your forgot Read, who also didn't really recruit anyone of note.
 
What recruits committed to Banker, Hughes, or Stewart? I think Donte will easily replace the Stewart relationships.

Your forgot Read, who also didn't really recruit anyone of note.
I didn't forget Read. No one is going to commit to a team for a ST coach. I agree a 100% about Donte Williams. Which makes me think what I posted may have come off wrong. I think coaching changes need to be made, but cleaning house again can't happen!
 
Don't forget this this,,,, GREG mcmullens comments posted by HBK

"He also discusses his relationship — or lack of one — with defensive coordinator Mark Banker, someone McMullen says he never spoke with throughout their shared time in Lincoln."

On his relationship with Mark Banker:
"I don't badmouth anybody. But I have never talked to him. I've seen him, tried to speak to him. Nothing ever really resonated. Coach John Parrella has been there a few weeks, and we probably talked six, seven, eight times over the last few weeks. Same with Coach Riley. Coach Banker has been there over a year, and I never even saw him, never received a text, a call,anything.

"I'm an adult. I don't really get hurt about too many things, especially not if someone isn't reaching out. To me personally, it's more that it would be nice for a defensive coordinator to at least show some appreciation or level of respect for an individual."
 
Don't forget this this,,,, GREG mcmullens comments posted by HBK

"He also discusses his relationship — or lack of one — with defensive coordinator Mark Banker, someone McMullen says he never spoke with throughout their shared time in Lincoln."

On his relationship with Mark Banker:
"I don't badmouth anybody. But I have never talked to him. I've seen him, tried to speak to him. Nothing ever really resonated. Coach John Parrella has been there a few weeks, and we probably talked six, seven, eight times over the last few weeks. Same with Coach Riley. Coach Banker has been there over a year, and I never even saw him, never received a text, a call,anything.

"I'm an adult. I don't really get hurt about too many things, especially not if someone isn't reaching out. To me personally, it's more that it would be nice for a defensive coordinator to at least show some appreciation or level of respect for an individual."
Also Don't forget McMullen falls into the category of a recruit that went through a complete staff change... Which ties into what I am saying.
 
I always tell kids to commit to the school as a student and not to the coaches as a player. I tell them to ask themselves 1 simple question. If tomorrow comes and you could no longer play your sport, would you still choose this school. If they can say yes, it's the right choice. The relationships with coaches are important, and shouldn't be understated, but once the player gets on campus, starts attending class and meets other players and students, the relationship with the coach reduces in importance. Secondly, coaches change from salesmen as recruiters to demanding coaches. Once they get you there, the buddy relationship you had as a high school student goes away quick. Now they need results, their livelihood depends on it. What got an athlete to attend the school is often not what keeps the athlete at the school.

As a father of a couple of division 1 athletes, one current, the other now in grad school, the amount of commitment to play D1 athletics is unreal. From practice to meetings to visits to trainers to homework and class. Not to mention any sort of social life. If you don't like where your at, for any reason, staying becomes a challenge.

Edit- McMullen wanted to be done with football. His lack of relationship with Banker may have made the decision easier to make, but was not the reason he stopped playing. If it was solely about relationships, why didn't his relationship with JP keep him around?
 
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Agree with the consistency part. Riley showing the ability to make changes on staff is huge. He is building a culture back up and making adjustments because, he too, is learning our culture. As long as progress is made, in one form or another, he will and should get time to make it happen. Recruiting is better, coaching is better, I think overall accountability is better. progress is certainly being made. Stay the course!
 
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That brings me to this. If I was a recruit that committed to play for Banker, Hughes or Stewart back in 2015 how would I be feeling right now? I left my family and friends to go play football in the middle of the United States, 1,500 miles away from home. Only to find out that the person I had the closest relationship with is now gone.

Once again if that recruit was me, I know that I would feel like I lost the reason I joined the school. I most likely would have made multiple friendships outside of football, but the main reason I committed is now no longer there.

I know there are people that aren't on board with Riley. Some people want a new coach. Some just like to complain to complain. In my opinion we let Riley continue to coach here until he is ready to leave, and when he leaves we need to keep some of his coaches on board and maintain the consistency that is needed for success.

Here's to all the recruits that think Nebraska is the place for them, and here's to the coaches for making Nebraska a "Home" again.

Thank You

AND

GBR!

Pardon me, but I only quoted excerpts. I only competed in small college athletics, and "no" I wasn't any good. But what I saw was camaraderie team member to team member and not really with coaches. There's a reason why TA and Westerkamp are roommates, they're brothers in arms, they're teammates. I haven't talked with a former coach in forever. Former teammates? I still talk with them. I only have one example, and it's mine, so certainly there could be other situations.

I'm probably tabbed as a Riley hater. I don't hate Riley. I want to see the program do well. If Riley will be here for 5 more years, give or take, then I think we have to consider the negative consequences of throwing out one staff and the uncertainty in bringing in a new staff. In the short term of 5 years, a bird in hand is worth two in the bush. If Riley intends to be 10+ years (emphasis on the "+"), then he has to be graded according to the standards of the program imo.

I will add that college coaching staffs can see attrition because they're really good or really bad.
 
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