Here let me break this down for buddy, maybe just maybe you can get off your high horse and except the fact that your opinion is not superior in any way.
So a trans woman is "gross" to you. Now picture a 72-year-old dating a 24-year-old. Also kinda gross, right? But if they’re happy, what’s the problem with either, right?
Both make me cringe, but...
Your logic: "It makes me uncomfortable, so it’s wrong." That’s not morality, that’s just your personal cringe scale.
You can’t pick and choose when happiness matters just because one version fits your taste.
You're not speaking truth, you're just loudly uncomfortable with stuff you don't get. That’s not wisdom, it’s garden-variety hypocrisy.