How do you know it is a "routine"? Maybe he really is a nice person. Maybe he sees the big picture better and knows what is truly important. Life is too short to be miserable.
Tom Osborne was a nice guy, and he didn't win the big one for a long time. In fact, his teams lost quite a few bowl games before they turned it around. I was at an event where he was asked what his biggest win was and he mentioned a Sun Bowl in around 1980 -- he said that a regent told him after the game if they hadn't won, he was going to be let go. So, he would have never had the chance to build the legacy that he did, had that happened.
Get some perspective and RELAX a little ... life will continue on tomorrow