Read where she made it clear before she came over she didn't want sex.
Any way you look at it, its a bad situation.
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Any way you look at it, its a bad situation.
How much prison time have you done?
Pretty bad take... lots more reasons than the only one you are coming up with. Think with your other head a little more.
Bet you didn't have many female friends in college. Shit you sound like a chimp or neanderthal.
I feel bad for young guys who are out dating in today's world. Especially on a college campus. I would think you have to be very careful. I think guys may have to be the ones who have to walk away from a situation sooner than women. I dated for a long time different women. I did not get married until my early forties. I had fun, but I was cautious on who I dated. (No kids, no debt, good job, etc). I have a brother-in-law who got divorced several years back. He lives in DC. He was in his forties. He dated so many women the for the first couple of years he was single. No way could I have kept up with his pace nor would I want to.
You are guilty of murdering the various definitions of the words: "Too", "to" and "Two".
What is with these creepy kids?
Isn't sex with a girl by yourself enough fun? Why do you need your creepy buddy jumping in?
I think that alone creates tons of gray between the black and white. And if Legrone hadn't been a friggin sneaky weirdo, and Hunt hadn't been down with the surprise threesome... the words "rape" or "sexual assault" never enter the equation.
Huh, anytime you would randomly have sex if not married to a spouse the person could just say I did not consent to sex at a later date. All you have to do is piss the woman off about something you did on Tuesday and your in jail for railing her against her without her “consent” Friday night???? No means no. Anything else is not a no. It’s how you run a society unless you are liberal in such case any non sensical idea is perfectly fine. See the states that are on fire…
It sure the hell doesn’t mean guilty. Well in America it does if your…never mind.
The worst part of this is that it sometimes brings into doubt those women that actually have suffered such a horrible offense. If this was DEFINITELY a false rape charge, she should certainly be prosecuted. Not only do you ruin the (albeit poor judgment) of these two young men, you stop women that have actually been raped from coming forward.
The “charge the woman” approach is broken as well. It could discourage woman from coming forward with legitimate crimes. Also would encourage woman with false claims to double down on the lie. It is an unsolvable problem.
Good decision IMO based on what little I know cause I wasn't there. Our system has worked pretty good everywhere recently if you ask me. Glad he walks away from this and hope it dies now.
Lost in the three pages of this thread is the fact that Andre Hunt is a snitch who copped a plea, paid a $1000 fine, and went back to LA. Good thing the Lancaster County DA didn't make him do even a day of jail time after the snitch. Snitches don't do so well in prison.
Am I wrong to feel bad for everyone involved in this. Not sure why we can't respect the jury's decision and move on. The young man has been found not guilty and thus should be treated as such.
I don't know, probably should be some special rules from the NCAA on incidents like this. Like player as long as he is not incarcerated should be afforded innocent until proven guilty and thus his scholarship can't be immediately taken away. IF he is found guilty, he must pay the school restitution. As far as team goes, up to the coach if/what the penalty is but the scholarship should remain until guilt is proven. I don't know, just thinking off the top of my head.
I don't know, probably should be some special rules from the NCAA on incidents like this. Like player as long as he is not incarcerated should be afforded innocent until proven guilty and thus his scholarship can't be immediately taken away. IF he is found guilty, he must pay the school restitution. As far as team goes, up to the coach if/what the penalty is but the scholarship should remain until guilt is proven. I don't know, just thinking off the top of my head.
Offering women millions of dollars to say they were raped gives them a motive to lie and makes the cases more difficult to figure out.
Is it possible that she wasn't being malicious and actually thought she was raped?
Nope, it was your thought, you just didn’t have the stones to actually write it.
How/why the hell did this thread get dredged up again?
If a kid is found NOT GUIlTY and your first thought is “ that doesn’t mean he didn’t do it.” Then the issue is inside of you, not me buddy.
No doubt. I was getting all these new alerts. I posted that 8 months ago. Totally forgot about it.
Tell your daughters that if they are even considering sex that they need to not drink at all and they should tell any guy they are with that if they (the girl) has anything to drink they do not consent to sex later. Makes it clear to both parties that the girl is in control of the situation. I have boys and will tell them that these rules apply when they are in college with any girls they are with (if she drinks, don't sleep with her). Don't drink and have regrets.
Good advice.
With that said, I am trying to think how I would have even had sober sex in college...
I’m not so confident, good ol’ “racism” never takes responsibly for his actions.
Perhaps it would be easier to teach our daughters not to be hoes. Seems to me it would solve a lot of problems. We all might benefit by teaching our sons not to be hoes as well.
Go Blue!
For some reason I thought conservatives had more of a Christian view of premarital sex as a sin. But, I guess you can disregard the sins that don’t fit your agenda or are inconvenient.. if you are in a situation where there is any uncertainty at all on if it is consensual then you deserve what you get…. Abortion- sin, premarital sex - ok, same sex marriage - sin, divorce - ok. The right has me so confused….
Agreed. We need to start teaching our sons that they have equal responsibility. They have become weak in character….
Awful situation. I feel for the woman and for the man.
If the man thought he was having consensual sex and later accused of sexual assault, that is an awful situation to be in...and it is an awful situation for the woman if she was truly afraid to say no and went along with having sex.
I can see a time where a young man will ask a woman on video if she wants to have sex, if only, to have evidence it is consensual...because in all these situations, it comes down to one's word vs another's.
If the man thought he was having consensual sex and later accused of sexual assault, that is an awful situation to be in...and it is an awful situation for the woman if she was truly afraid to say no and went along with having sex.
I can see a time where a young man will ask a woman on video if she wants to have sex, if only, to have evidence it is consensual...because in all these situations, it comes down to one's word vs another's.
I mean, girls should know that getting invited over to a dudes place late at night is not for any other reason than to try to get some stanky on his hangdown.
